Okay so my best friend as been dating this guy for a five years now. Everything seemed like it was going well at least I thought so until today. She looked like she was feeling stressed so I asked what was wrong. She was a bit hesitant, but final told me that she wasn't all that into her boyfriend anymore and that she haven't been for about the last 2 and half years of their relation. She said she's afraid to tell him because at the moment she can't afford a place of her own. They started living together after a year into the relationship because she lost her job a while back and couldn't afford her on place anymore.
I'm really really tore here. On one hand she is my friend, but on the other I can't stand men or women who do this. I've grown to like the guy and become friends with him, so I'm a bit at war with myself here. It's not really fair to the guy in anyway. She asked me not to tell, but I seriously don't know what to do.
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You MUST tell him. You are doing the right thing for telling him, I mean how would you if you were in his shoes. Think about it.
With that being said, you are not betraying your best friend, you actually saving or helping the both of them. Help your best friend to find a solution. Encourage to find a job and stay at yourplace or something. There is ALWAYS a solution to a problem.1