I get the feeling that many women do find me quit attractive and charming, but they probably think, "ehhh, ill wait for someone else." Maybe because im not as attractive as some other guys, the eye candy, the tall dark and handsome mold that all women dream of, they pass me up. But why?
I've settled over and over again because I really dont have a choice. The woman I ask has to want me back. Believe me, im not picky or shallow. My friends always disagree with who I find hot. Yet women seem to think "settling" is such a bad thing. What is wrong with mr. Good enough?
I think most people who think they are settling are actually overestimating themselves and have unrealistic standards. Not everyone can get an 9 or 10. Id be happy with a 6 or 7.
Ladies, you better learn where you stand before 30. I know a woman who when young was dating an 8, refused to marry him cuz she wanted a 10, and now she's older the best she can get is a 5. And for everyone of those older ladies whos alone, there's a nice decent looking young guy who can't even get a date with women his own age.
Settling? No, I see it as a way to "settle in" and find who you are really a match with.
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I don't think this has anything to do with your looks. I have like 3 friends who are married to guys who are less physically attractive than you.
You know how young hot guys like to party when they're young because, well... They're young? They're not worrying about settling down because they're in the prime. When people get older, then they realize they want kids and a family and someone to be with them forever.
Women are the same way actually. When they're young they want to party, get laid and have fun too. Then reality settles in when their looks start to fade and realize they want to be with someone who wants them for them and not their body. Sure some women start thinking about married since they're like 12 but there's a lot of party girls not into getting married when they're young. Most people want to party in their 20s and then have a family in their 30s.
Maybe your problem is you attract girls who aren't ready for marriage and having a family yet. I mean, your username is partyboy45... I don't know know you or the girls you go out with so this is just a guess, but I just feel like this goes deeper than just looks.1