I'm in pretty good shape, and to be honest I don't look like I fit my personality.
In all reality, I got into archery and started staying in shape because of the Lord of the Rings. But when I started getting into it I looked about right for my personality, stereotypical short and thin nerdy guy. The problem is, now I look a lot like I have an interest in sports, which I really have no clue about.
So girls, what I'm asking is: If you met a guy who was in good shape, and had muscle definition that made it look like he was really athletic, but was actually a pretty big geek (high iq, knew a ton of random facts, great at arguing, somewhat poor social skills), would that put you off, or make you less attracted to him?
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It all depends on which girl you are asking this question - everyone has different perspectives on what is "attractive". Some girls like super muscular guys, or guys who are skinny, or somewhere in the middle. Hopefully most girls do not make judgement on the physical appearance of a man and base that on whether or not they "like them or not". I think that one thing all girls can agree on is just making sure the guy is physically healthy (no health problems in which the physical appearance plays a role in such as unhealthy overweight or unhealthily underweight) Based on the previous answers, as you can see, all the answers vary because everyone has different tastes in what is attractive. As what I see, you have nothing to be insecure or worrying about! Maybe work on those "socially awkward skills" and build confidence in yourself because you seem like a very bright and intelligent young man! Maybe join a public speaking club/class? I think in every gender, we can agree that confidence is a trait that is "attractive" :) Just be confident in who you are because you seem to be very capable! Good luck! :)2