I slept with a guy and while we kept in touch over the summer he said he liked me and wanted to take me on a date when we went back to university. I kept saying I don't normally date and eventually he dropped it. We hooked up twice since school started. I asked if he still wanted to date, and he kept giving me "idk" and said "You said you only wanted hookups". He said he didn't want to date. We hooked up and he was super into eye contact, cuddling, kissing me on the cheek, and tickling me and saying we should play a video game together. I recently snapchatted him saying I regret shit talking dating like that and that I like being around him and that I fuck up like that a lot. All he said was "Really? :P" I'm not sure if he likes me and is afraid of how I didn't want to date, or if he's just uninterested in that anymore.
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You already gave him his payment for knowing you. And he spent it. All of it. Now you want him to do the job... of dating you, getting to know you. There's nothing higher, bonding wise, two human beings can engage in, than sex. And you gave it to him right away. In his male mind, he is wondering where your relationship can go. What would you like to have happen at this point? What do you think will happen now? He was only interested in your body, and you are hoping suddenly he wants your heart, too?0
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