I really like this guy but I do not know how to ask him out, or iff I should wait for him to ask me.
- Ask him out (tell me how in comments)Vote A
- Wait for him to ask meVote B
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I am not a fan of girls directly asking a guy if you want to go out with me on a date. That can hint to some guys that you are easy and you may get some unwanted sex offers. Yes it has happened to some people I know. Asking someone out directly should be a guy's job in my opinion. I like the traditional way better.
That doesn't mean a girl can't get the guy to go out with her. There are two ways. One is say hey let's hang out at ______. You are hinting to a guy that you want to go out on a date with him without actually asking him. Another way is that you can say hey let's go out some time without saying specially where. That gives the guy the door to ask you out. If he likes you, he will no longer have the fear of asking you out. The key is letting him know without you doing the asking and let him do the asking.0