This guy has been giving me signals for months. Almost a year. He never made the move so i decided to ask him out when he came in my work. There was a long line, and i asked him what he was doing this weekend and he said nothing yet and my gut told me the way he was saying it was like an invitation to ask. I said well if you are free we should do something, and he was like yes totally i will be in touch all cute and excited.
It's been two days and nothing. I didn't have time to exchange numbers (long line) or nail anything specific down but we are Facebook friends and he said he'd be in touch. I want your opinion on this:
If he was interested would he have messaged? Should i be the one to message since i initiated?
OR should I wait to talk to him until we are in person again?
Should i fb message him my number?
And just your general feel about this situation.
I have never asked a guy out before. I really like him. I'm wondering if i should not have made a move, because it looks desperate like all of my girlfriends tell me. I'm sad.
- Stop overthinking, nail plans out in person next time.Vote A
- Message him your number.Vote B
- You turned him off. Let it go. Move on.Vote C
- Wait for him to message/reask you outVote D
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Sounds like something I went through recently. A friend (nothing more) sent me nude selfies. 1, 2, 3, 4 in a row. The fifth message was something like "what do you think?" I was bothered because just a day or two before I told her I wasn't interested in that kind of relationship with her. My instant reaction was to delete the pictures and back off of our friendship for a while.
I'm sure she was embarrassed she sent them and was rejected. But, to keep a friend, I am letting some time go by before I contact her again.
My point: He's probably a nice guy who you like but the like isn't reciprocated or he doesn't know what to do next. Let it go, you're only FB friends.1