If you like someone and you're pursuing them, what's something they could do that would make you change your mind entirely about wanting to be with them? (And don't say obvious ones like them sleeping with someone else).
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Fair question, but there is more than one and I guess this applies to most if not all guys and girls in general.
First and foremost, mutual respect is the pillar of any bond. A relationship demands certain understanding and respect from both the ends. Without mutual respect, there can be no relationship.
Yes, you mentioned you are pursueing this girl, but knowing that your girl is enjoying another man’s company more than you is just disturbing. Of course, there’s nothing wrong with healthy flirting. But when she starts overdoing it, it simply means she has lost all interest in you. A one-sided relationship cannot drag on for too long.
With me or...
Does she look past you when you meet? While it is perfectly fine for her life to not revolve solely around you, it is appalling when she doesn’t even acknowledge your presence. If she is not paying any attention to you, especially when in public, it’s time to get the hint, mate.
Lying is an indication of a hole widening. Petty lies are totally okay, we use them as excuses too sometimes. But the real problem arises when it borders on to bigger things. They may not affect you at present, but chances are that it may soon revolve around a lot in the relationship.
Disagreement is one thing, nasty criticism is another. There is nobody in the world who is entitled to belittle you. A lot of women develop the habit of looking down upon their men, critiquing everything they do, and definitely not in the right spirit. Criticism is supposed to help you evolve. If she cannot accept your flaws, or at least try to help solve it together, there is no reason why she should have any importance in your life.
Those are just a few common reasons but all of which are justifiable. I hope this helps :)0