I think we've all had this problem of wanting to ask out our crush, but we don't know if the feelings are mutual. How do you ask in such a way that you can make it seem as though it could either be a date or just hanging out with a friend? We work together so if I make it seem too much like a date and he says no it could make work awkward.. I just want to put it out there because I'm sick of having these feelings without doing anything about them.
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It's pointless to ask him out in a way that could be perceived as both a date and a casual hangout. You will literally learn nothing from doing that, all it will do is cause more confusion. Just be up front about it and ask him out on a date, and a real one. Rejection is not something you should be afraid of. I know it's easier said than done, but trust me, you're better off not caring as much about it. The sooner you stop caring about getting rejected, the easier it will be to accept it and move on.1