I meet this guy about a year ago we became friends with benefits. I slowly started meeting his friends and now we all hang out. I hangout with his friends w/out him because they invite me to. Anyways i like the guy but I dont want to hook up with him anymore. I want to just be friends. I know we're going to see each other frequently because I became super close to certain friends of his. So I don't want it to be awkward and I love the guy, he's great. I'm not in love with him to be clear. But it's hard because every time were all out and about drinking or whatever we end up hooking up. I've tried not to but it always happens.
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I am sorry but you ruined the opportunity to be his friend the moment you slept with him.
Sex destroys friendships before marriage. Sex cements them after marriage.
You are too weak to tell him no. There is no way to "Tell" him other than leaving him. Even if he says he does respect you, you will end up hooking up with him, again.
My advice is never to get into a friends with benefits situation again. Not if you care about the person in the least.0