I'm 23. Girls love me. Lots of guys think, "you're so lucky, why would you complain about that?" The girls I work with that I want to be friends with have crushes on me, their moms have crushes on me. I can't have friends that are girls with out them expressing their love to me at some point. When I was younger I thought it was great but I hate it now. And here's why.
Everyone tells me I can have any girl I want! I'm respectful, polite, always kind and caring, know what to say when and how. I always hold the door open, always pick her up, always show up 5 minutes early. And ALWAYS treat her like a princess. Every mom wants their daughter with me...
Because of all that I've been accused of being a player and leading girls on. I never do that and try so hard to tell girls I'm not interested in that way. I really only want one girl in my life. I don't want to date them all and have sex with all of them, not even slightly. I just want one girl I can call my own. And when I find a girl, I always fall in love... cause I'm just caring like that. With the last girl it lasted for 5 years. All the other girls that liked me at the time were asking how did she get him because they thought I was out of her league. Because she wasn't pretty enough or something. I thought that was rude and stuck up, and besides... I loved her. She's the one that made me not know what to say. I wanted to marry her. Her and her whole family because I loved them all more than I thought I could.
... but like the others she broke up with me. With no real explanation.
Here I am, supposedly mr. incredible, and I always get dumped by these girls. They all say I'm so great, when they break up they always tell me never to change or turn into a douche bag. And they leave.
I know what kind of answers I'll get, "just wait for the right one." This last girl was the right one. I have a million girls to choose from; but the one I want more than anything is the only one I can't have. Why?
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To add up to what I said below, sometimes it's more about timing than anything else. They can appreciate what they have to some extent (hence the never change comment), but it's not a good fit at the time. Maybe they don't want to settle down yet or something else that they themselves may not be aware of.1