So I finally told one of my male friends I had feelings for him today and I don't know how to take his answer, unfolded like this...
On the phone he tells me he bumped into a girl today he went out with years ago. They broke up in there teens as she joined the navy but is now home, were all 32 now. I don't know her. I just went abit quiet on the phone because I've kept it hidden but I have feelings other than friendship for him. Later tonight when txting each other I said "when you told me about this woman today I felt sad" he said "why?" And I replied "I think you can guess, I like you and I just did" he replied "ok night, " I'm confused, have I lost a friend through admitting my feelings? Does it sound like he does not want me? :(
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He may have just felt very awkward or uncomfortable about it. Perhaps ge doesn't feel the same way or maybe he does and he didn't know how to respond because he may not want anything to wreck the friendship. I think you should talk to him about it face to face and hopefully he will be straightforward and honest about how he feels.0