So I have a crush on a higher up co worker. The thing is, I don't know how he feels about me. He's very quite and never opens up. The other day we were sitting together making small talk. He asked me if I had the next day off of work. I said no. He just returned to his work. I looked on our schedule and saw he happened to have the next day off of work. So I asked, what are you doing on your day off tomorrow. He turned to me an said, I guess I'll stay home and watch TV, or maybe go get some coffee? This puzzled me so I came back with a silly small talk response of, I wish I had a day off. And that was the end of it.
I'm wondering if this was his way of asking me to go and get coffee with him. He's very shy, very closed off. He really only talks to me at work. I'm not sure because I've never met such a shy person I was interested in. I'm the kind of person who says things flat out. Its confusing me.
- he was asking you outVote A
- he was just making small talkVote B
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I don't know what the answer was... but that is the worst "ask out" I've ever heard of.
And if it wasn't, who talks about getting a cup of coffee as the highlight of a day off?
When he's back at work, say something like "Yeah, I was wondering if you wanted to get some coffee when I got at break at lunchtime yesterday"0