Not sure what to think at this point, and I'm really confused.
Last semester, before I graduated, I met this girl in class. We worked as partners on a chem lab and we have been talking ever since.
-Fast forward to now. I don't see her anymore since I graduated, BUT we still talk on snapchat (I deleted my Facebook, so we don't talk there anymore).
-We have a lot in common from books, movies, TV shows and I have no problem making her laugh.
-On snapchat, she got drunk one night, spilled her guts to me and showed me her boobs XD.
-She apologized the next day, but she said that she really did like me. She thinks could make a cute couple. Etc. Etc. Etc. And she really wants to hang out with me.
-I like her too, but I am not into big women. She has a cute face, so I always thought she would be pretty good looking if she lost the extra pounds.
-I got curious, briefly reactivated my FB account and did a little snooping. Before she knew me, she was a skinny and and I was right... she was pretty attractive!
I like her, because she nice, kind and funny. I just don't know if her weight will do it for me. I am the type of guy who likes to stay in shape and stay physically active... and I like my girls to do the same.
What should I do?
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Obviously you should just friendzone her to save her from all the hurt you would do by making her feel down about her weight. Mentioning her weight to a girl can really fuck up her head... take me for instance, I had people do that to me, cos I was over weight and pudgy.. my own father called me fat... and as a result I dropped 20kg in a month (went from 90kg to 70kg) because I refused to eat, and if I was made to eat, then I would be in the bathroom with my hand down my throat to force myself to puke it all up... I then moved and lived with my mum and started to get better, with her food though, in one year I got back to 93kg... and once again, now I am out on my own, I dont eat most days, my boyfriend says he loves me and that I'm not fat, I am beautiful to him, he gets me to eat lunch & dinner but he has no idea how hard I fight with myself to not go and force myself to puke it up straight away... all because people have dissed me about my weight my entire life... so if you dont want to hurt this girl, and you can't get passed her weight, then dont even go there.2