So hello everyone,
The question is simple. I find it really weird that little communication is better for getting a date.
If I like someone, I will try to have communication with her. I genuinely would like to know if she had a good day. Apparently in a dating game it seemed to the less you care about the girl the more she is attracted to you. I mean really?
Doesn't it validates the thought that girl is nothing but a use and throw item? Why would a girl wants to validate it? How come its not like, if he doesn't even care to respond properly how in the heaven is he going to care about me or respect me?
Isn't the communication is the one of the strong base of anything? Why do we choose to shoot the arrow in the dark and hope the guy or girl would be the exactly what I am looking for? I mean why even waste a time in playing mind games of texting?
How it makes a person needy or desperate if he or she chooses to simply follow the heart and try his or her best to get one.
Just because someone hurt your ego by not responding, he or she becomes more attractive. Someone cares to respond than he or she is nothing but needy, have no life and desperate, really is it so?
I always choose to respect of someone's taking a time to text me so I respond back asap but it makes me needy and desperate. I MAKE TIME for them. In reality are we actually going to date a CEO so he or she doesn't have time and have tons of shit to deal with?
Now I think I am getting the point that why players always win, I guess. I don't even care but surely would like to know the girl's perspective. I choose to treat a woman as a human being. Wish if they could also reciprocate the basic values. One thing is for sure respect doesn't get you anywhere but being asswhole would definitely get you somewhere.
Please would you like to share your thoughts?
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its true and not true. im straight honest with girls in my class and they call me an asshole but they have crushes on me. i just couldn't care less really hahaa. people call me a natural flirt. its good that you value communication and respect and know how important those things go hand in hand but in this generation, and at least where im from in SoCal, the way i am gets me dates. and i would describe that as, open, funny, straight honest (example; why are you wearing so much makeup?) and just making fun of them. i just dont care and it seems to work:P but its not all good man, it only goes so far so dont think that you're missing out cause you have a set of strong values.0