This girl I like at work and I used to be pretty close. She used to occasionally blush while talking to me and act nervous. The problem is she's had aong time boyfriend but I don't think he treats her well. Anyways her and I would be up and down back and forth. We'd talk all the time but she'd go missing for a few days then come back. I tried to make her jealous and ignore her. I found out when I was ignoring her she ran to my buddy for attention I guess. He told me it was weirding him out. But I know he thinks she's cute.
Anyway, I am joining her dept soon and there is another position open. The boss of that dept said everyone should know who the other guy is. So i figured my buddy. So I bumped into her and we started asking each other who we think it is. I said Jason my buddy, and she says "oh me too!" And kind of started blushing. I think she knows I get jealous. I also said it as a way to feel her out. She said she thought he would be perfect because he knows the system. I agreed she didn't take her eyes off me and I felt she was trying to get a read on me too. I figured if she liked him she would diverted her eyes or played it off but the blushing threw me off. So then I mentioned I thought it could be this other girl that works at a different location. She's cute girl. When I said the other girls name she didn't say anything and the convo just kind of died. It was awkward so I said "you know Whitney?" And she just said yea and we kind of walked away. Any thoughts?
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My thoughts are that she still is in a relationship and that you two are doing a back and forth that is not really helpful for either of you. If you want something to come out of it you should ask her how her and so and so are doing... so and so being her boyfriend. & actually act like you care. Some times our facial expressions are uncontrollable but be aware of what you are doing. Don't worry about if she likes your buddy - I think she is just a nice person and enjoys companionship so the fact she went to him when you were ignoring her, that doesn't mean much.0