It seems that some girls are just about looks when hooking up/ having a long term relationship with a guy
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Varies individually of course. To me personally it's personality, then confidence, then looks, in order of importance. I'm not going to lie and say looks have zero factor because there needs to be SOME tinge of physical attraction. I know a couple of guys who are so unattractive to me that they could be superheros with the world's greatest personalities and the thought of being anything more than friends with them would never cross my mind. No amount of personality could make up for their face. Just no.
However, I also know guys who I don't think are particularly good looking, but I'm attracted to their personalities and confidence, and wouldn't write off being more than friends with them. Looks isn't the be all and end all. Looks are so fragile, you could be great looking one day but then get into some freak accident the next and get your face messed up. And even if that doesn't happen, EVERYBODY eventually gets less attractive as they age. Looks are just a mask that go over who you really are as a person. Who are is what really counts.2