I dont know why i change my mind so much, is it because i fear of getting hurt? or i dont feel like im worthy or good enough?
I dated a guy in winter and things were great and he was great, but unfortunatly because he didn't live in my town and had so much going on , he wasn't looking for anything serious. So we didn't speak for 6 months, and be not having had a boyfriend ever and im 22 , i was broken. I liked him a lot and he had been in a 6 year relationship before and had a lot of experiance, so i felt like i want good enough.
I let him be for 6 months and focused on myself, i got a new job, finnished exams and just enjoyed my summer.
He moved to my town this summer and 2 weeks ago he contacted me and wanted to meet, he lives 5 min away from me. I met him and it was great, nothing awkward at all. He told me to contact him whenever i wanted , if i ever wanted to meet and i should go to his place for coffe, so i asked if he wanted to meet when i was back from my vacation and he said yes.
Well im back now and i want to ask if on Sunday he wants to meet and go on a bike ride. I want to do fun achtivities and not a normal date because i dont really know where we stand.
Well my problem is , should i go for it? i dont want to be hurt, i know not to expect much but at the same time i do.. i want him but i dont want to be rejected.. i know that everything i want is on the other side of fear.. i dont want to run after him because he "rejected me"..
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In my opinion you should go for it but not directly... you should call him and ask him what has he done the time you weren't there... then ask him if he has done any thing like workout, running or bike riding... whatever he answers you go for it and tell him you want to do a bike ride on Sunday and ask him if he wants to join too0
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