So last saturday, this guy and I (we've been talking for 2 months and have hung out at least 3 times before this) went to lunch before I had to go to work. It was kinda rushed, but he wanted to see me since he got back in town. The night before, he texted and called me to ask if I was busy Saturday and I said just work around 5. So we're at lunch and having a great time and he asked me if I told anyone he was back in town and I said "no." and he was like "good because I don't want anyone to know, I just want to hang out with you." So the lunch was going really well and then I let it slip that I wasn't working Sunday (very casually haha) and he asked "well do you want to hang out again tomorrow then? we could go to a movie or that trampoline place you wanted to go to? sometime after 12?" and I said "Sure, yeah, sounds good!" And the next day, he didn't call, text or get in any contact with me and ignored my messages asking if he still wanted to go out. I was so confused and hurt! Still am, really. We have a really good connection, everyone at our work place thinks were dating, we talk a lot (used to be every day but it dwindled), we have things in common, we love spending time together, my parents like him and he likes my parents, and it just seemed like it was going so well and now it's stressful. He's been having money issues and also quit his job and left his apartment and is trying to get it all back so I'm wondering if it's just that or is it something that I did?
He makes the plans to hang out and then blows me off?
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Well, I would say you don't know this guy too well, so don't look for having a serious relationship with him yet, it might be that due to his financial problems he is really working hard and trying to get everything sorted out or the only other explanation I can think of is, he borrowed money from someone and he is just running away from them. In any case as I said earlier, you really have no idea about this guy, get to know him first.0
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