I am seeing this girl who has understandable trust issues, because of an ex asshole who cheated on her. I have nothing to hide from her how do I show her that? I have no issues with her going through any of my stuff, phone, laptop, social media sites, I have nothing to hide. We are seeing each other long distance. How do I make her trust me?
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As a girl with a somewhat similar disposition right now, I think you're doing just about as much as you can. You can't MAKE her feel anything. She is going to have to work through that hurt and mistrust on her own, and you can help in supporting her, but don't take it personally if she takes a while. For someone with trust issues, actions not words are what become most important. And this relationship being long distance, actions will be hard to get across. You're already doing a lot, but know that showing you really DO care for her is the most important thing. Phone calls, loving messages, gifts, find however she best receives love and be sure to frequently and sincerely affirm that for her.1