I started talking to this nice-looking guy (or at least I thought) on OkC & we exchanged #s and made plans to meet up. He emailed me a recent pic of him at a touristy spot & it shocked me. In his OkC pics he's skinny & almost model good-looking. In the recent pic he looks middle-aged! He's kinda heavyset and balding. I decided to Google him & found him on FB & LinkedIn. Turns out his OkC pics are from at least 6-7 years ago. And he told me he's 27 but looking at his LinkedIn he has 10-15 years of work experience after college, which puts him around mid to late 30s. I feel really superficial but I don't wanna meet up anymore, partly bc he looks middle-aged (I'm only 25) and also bc I'm pissed off at being lied to. How do I call off our first date without being rude?
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There is nothing wrong with wanting to date a man your age, & being upset that a guy not only lied about his age but who he currently looks like. This guy wants a younger woman, but knows most women won't date an older man, so he lied about his age. Forget about him, & find someone who is honest.1