I've been seeing a guy who I ended things with months ago because he wasn't ready to commit, yet got incredibly angry when he saw me kiss another guy. I was really mad, and ignored his calls when he tried getting in touch again after about 6 months. I finally gave in and answered and we've hung out and it's been great. the first time we hung out I made it clear I wasn't ready to have sex with him, and he was more than ok with that. we've only done date-like activities like him taking me out to dinner, and we did have sex the second time we hung out. I feel like he really genuinely missed me and really cares for me, but he's really busy. he's in two bands and works a full time job right now also. he's been making time for me, obviously, but I'm a little frustrated by the lack of time. I really don't think he notices it as a big deal, so I guess maybe it's something I should mention. things went bad before for a very clear reason, we both wanted different things, so I just don't know why he would try so hard to get back in touch with me and see me if he wasn't ready to at least try to give me what I want, to at least move in that direction. we have an amazing time together, but I'm confused about his intentions, so I asked him, and he said they were good, but I guess that could mean a lot of things? he is incredibly attentive to me when we talk, remembers so many things that I even forgot that I told him etc, he makes me feel very cared about, but I want more and I just can't tell if he does.
- if he's trying this again he probably wants moreVote A
- he's just trying to see how far he can push youVote B