I'm struggling... Big time! I'm divorced after almost 7 years of marriage. I have 2 kiddos aged 2 and 5. I am 26 and trying to date but I keep failing. I've been doing the online thing. Every guy is a date or two and they fade away. Now I think I'm pretty normal. I'm outgoing, funny and a great comminicator. I have a stable job, home, car ect. Is it my 2 young kids? I do make it clear they won't be in the mix until some time. I have them about every other week, sometimes more. I have no drama with my ex. What am I doing wrong? Looking for the wrong guy? Maybe online dating isn't the way and I need to find some other way?
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As a guy and also someone who doesn't have kids or even a gf for that matter. there's nothing wrong with you and there's nothing wrong with having kids, the problem is that most guys find kids intimidating. It will take a very extraordinary man who will accept your kids as well as the fact that the ex will also have a role in your life of course. I dont wanna sound gloomy or anything but you aren't gonna find that someone like that. Be patient and take your time. He is out there and when you do meet you will know. Hope everything works out for you1