Hi so I have never had a girlfriend and not because I have not had the opportunities to, but because I am afraid of commitment. I know somewhat of what I want, I want a sweet Christian girl that shares the same sense of humor as me. The problem is I don't know mch about what I want after that and I fear if I commit myself to someone, I may end up figuring out I actually don't want to be with them and I really do not like breaking peoples hearts. But I guess thats just the risk you have to take in a relationship.
Am I right or wrong about this?
There is a girl Im talking to now and I can tell she wants a relationship with me and I kinda do too but these fears are stopping me, should I just go for it and take a risk?
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Because you like her and want to be more than friends, you probably should give it a shot. You like each other. You cannot guarantee that the relationship will last forever and you will get married.0