I just don't. a lot of black women I see from my area (LA) who are my age (21) are usually fat and/or overweight. And that is an automatic turn off. Thats it. It has nothing to do with media, or guys thinking "white" skin or "lighter" skin is better, that's what YOU want to think. But the real honest to god truth is that a lot of these women are just fat. When I'm at the gym, I rarely see black women in there. Its always majority Hispanic women and Caucasian women.
I don't date women who aren't in shape, especially at my age, you should be in your prime. There are attractive black women out there, but they are far in a few. Like this one girl I saw at Starbucks, man, she has nice thick legs like a track runner or volleyball players and a huge ass, and a flat stomach. She was studying anatomy I think, she had on some glasses, she was really cute, one of the sexiest girls i've seen period. And she wasn't light or dark, she was just brown. Moral of the story is, when it pertains to black women, because we are talking about black women here only, I usually don't look their way because a lot of them from my experience in my geographical location are not in shape and do not take the time to be attractive, yet they stay complaining blaming their skin tone.
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The black women in your "geographical location" are not representative of all black women.
Why sugar coat it, if you're not attracted to them, then you're not attracted to them. Simple. It's just not that important.
You don't have to do the spiel about us being overweight, because in reality we both know that's not true of the majority of black women; who btw, span the world and aren't just found in your country.13
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