I've been thinking about what happened last night and over the past couple of days and I can't get it out of my head.
-I met this girl on Tinder 2 months ago, and we have been talking everyday since then through various social media sites.
-About 2 weeks ago, she expressed how much she liked me and wanted to meet me. She lives 75 miles away from me, and it is a 1.5 hour drive! She said that we can meet halfway in the city and hangout for a bit.
-I declined, because my car has trouble with long distances (I don't have money right now) and I am not used to city driving since I am from the country. And I told her I was still figuring out my feelings for her.
-She seemed to understand, so we kept talking everyday... but she would hint that she wished she could meet me.
-Recently, she went out of town to hang out with some friends. I didn't talk to her for 3 days when she was out of town... and that's when I suddenly realized I liked her and missed her.
-When she came back, she stopped messaging me first. Gave me smart-ass or single answer replies and seemed totally uninterested. She eventually told me she has been talking to another guy, BUT still wants to be my friend.
-After she told me that, I didn't talk to her for a day. Tried talking to her last night on SnapChat. She didn't reply for sometime (which is strange for her).
-Instead of replying to me directly, she made a SnapChat update. It was of her smiling with another guy and they were sitting on the couch.
-I was devastated, so I sent her one final message... telling her I understood, wished her a good life and deleted her from my life :(.
Did I hurt her feelings without realizing it? And was she trying to get back at me?
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Sounds like she was trying to make you jealous? Did it work? If the answer is yes.. She got you back good unfortunately.. women can lose interest quite quickly.. But i think she still likes you regardless, sending her that "you understood and wished her luck in life" you shouldn't of said that, you should of just left it till she got back to you..0