There's this guy that's constantly trying to pursuer and frankly I'm not interested but he's sooo sweet and warm I can't break his heart please help
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He'll probably be hurt no matter what, unfortunately. :( But it's best to be honest and polite. You could tell him you just don't like him the way he likes you. He's really sweet, but you don't feel like the two of you are compatible. You don't feel like there's any chemistry between the two of you. Maybe you can say you don't have enough in common, if that's true.
Also, in situations like these, I like to avoid using the word "you" more than necessary. It can sound sort of accusatory to someone who's being rejected. So I say things like, "We're not compatible," or "We don't have a lot in common," stuff like that. I think it doesn't seem to pin the blame on the guy as much.1