I'm 18 and I'm going out a guy 3 years older than me. I really like he's a great normally. But he keeps asking to film us having sex. I don't want to. I'm frightened of what will happen with the footage. I've told him no, that I don't want to. But he keeps bringing up the subject.
I don't want to break up with him. But I want him filming us having sex. What should I do?
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Whatever you do, do not give into pressure of filming while having sex. If something goes wrong in the relationship, he can use that film as blackmail and once it is out on the internet, it is on there forever. Whenever you guys have sex, you should look around for a secret video camera, he probably has one hidden somewhere... I would not be surprised. One of my sister's ex's filmed them having sex without her consent. If he doesn't respect the fact that you don't want to film each other having sex, I would break up with him.1