I've been together with my bf almost a year now but I still can't understand why he wants to be with me. I feel like I'm not good enough for him. I'm a little overweight and not stunningly beautiful or anything. He's one of the most popular guys and funny and very handsome etc. There are lots of perfect girls after him and I just feel I'm full of imperfections. This feeling is killing me, but I don't want to tell him about it because I'm afraid he would see all my flaws if I point them out... What should I do?
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You're not cheating on him are you? My most recent ex-girlfriend would always say the same thing. Saying she can't understand why I would be with her. That she wasn't good enough for me. And at the time I was confused as to why she would think this, but later I found out that she was cheating on me.. and that was what she meant by her not being good enough for me. You don't have to answer the question that I asked about if you're cheating on him. You know the answer to that and it's not a question that needs to be answered. So, if you're cheating on him, maybe that's why...
If you're not cheating on him, then get it out of your head that you're not good enough for him. All the imperfections you hate about yourself are probably what makes him attracted to you in the first place. No guy wants a "perfect" girl. Guys want girls that are full of imperfections... but we are looking for a girl that has imperfections that we like. And these imperfections don't make the girl perfect... but they do make her perfect for us. It's those little imperfections that attracts us. So, what should you do? Get the thought that he's too good for you out of your head.0