would you date a guy like me who is poor and ugly?
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Any guy I have been interested in, I always got to know them first. It had absolutely nothing to do with their looks. In fact, there has only ever been one guy I've liked that had a great a personality as well as being handsome. I knew him for two years before I actually started to like him I am shy, so generally it takes me a while to be able to get to know people. Once I do, I open up to them. Many of these guys were always friends of mine as we got to know each other. I've never ever gone for a guy for looks alone. If I connect well with a guy I will end up liking him. The problem is most guys don't like me back. I am an ugly woman, so I can't be picky about looks anyway. None of the men I ended up being interested in were ever interested back. They always said I was a good friend, but they weren't attracted to me. As for money? I make good enough money for myself. I don't care what guys make. I never have, even when I didn't have much money. It's something my mother taught my sister and I. She was a single mother and she raised us to not care about money.
Honestly, it all depends on how we connect and if we have mutual attraction. On my part, I usually am attracted to the guy, but the guy is never attracted to me.0