Get this. I was meeting this guy for the first time and we decided to get dinner. I prefer maybe coffee or appetizers but dinner works. I am always down for free food.
We arrive and the waitress takes our order. I ordered a burger and fries and he ordered the same. I said "I'll be right back. I have to use the restroom." I came back and he still had the burgers and fries but I ended up getting the grilled chicken salad. I told him that I didn't order this, they must've messed up our order. He said that he was just concerned about my weight and I didn't need all that fat and salt.
If you want to know. I am 5'9" and I am 150lbs. My weight isn't that bad. Was he concerned about my weight or was this a red flag?
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Please tell me this is a post that is just to troll. No guy that does that is worth a moment of thought, that is a 100% instant dealbreaker, and you should have just walked out right then and there. That is incredibly rude, implies he isn't happy with your appearance, implies that what is good for him is not good for you, and is dominating power trip. There are not enough adjectives to describe how bad this behaviour is. It is a red flag, with a charging bull.7