Here is my dilemma. My boyfriend broke up with me two days before Valentines. He cried, I cried and since then he has texted me a few times or I have texted him. Now it has been a little over 2 weeks since our last texts to each other. I would like to say hi but would like him to to be the first to contact me. Guys. Would you want your ex to contact you if you were still in love with her but broke up with her?
I am so confused because he cried when I went to his house about a month ago to pick up some stuff and asked if he could still text me. He texted the next day and now I haven't heard anything for 2 weeks. I just don't get it. Any advice?
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I would have to say that it depends on why you broke up and what his reasons were. It does sound like he was pretty upset about the whole thing though. I have to assume that he is thinking the same thing you are, he wants to know why you haven't contacted him via text, phone call, email, etc. He is most likely waiting you out. He wants you to contact him first to make sure that you are still thinking about him and care about him. I will say this though. The second he sees your name pop up on his phone he will get butterflies in his stomach like you wouldn't believe. Now like I said, I'm not sure what exactly happened or if you guys are trying to reconcile at all, but either way, I bet if you text him, he will resume the contact with you. If you try and explain a bit more of the situation, and I could probably give you a clearer answer on what he is thinking.0