Currently I'm the older 'woman' in a relationship with a man, 6 years younger than me. I feel it's difficult to maintain this relationship because of the differences in life experience. He is very caring, more so than all previous ex bf's/ dating flings I've had... My family say he would leave me for a younger 'vixen', I will always worry that I don't look young enough (I do lookyoung for my age, according to bf I look his age) and that he's 'too young'.
What exactly is the consensus out there on this situation. There are older guys pursuing me, but I'm currently taken. I respect my relationship with my current man but at times, wish he was more of a 'leader' type,
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Quit complaining :D
If he wants you, then that's all to the good. When you're older yet, you won't be getting the hot young stud action. So enjoy it while you've got it.
The leader thing is something completely different. You need to decide if that's what you want.
And you need to find out what he wants from a LTR, does he want kids? Where's your body at if that's the case? Because that *is* a reason he might leave you for a younger vixen, later. So you need to find that out, and hope he knows what he wants.
Most divorces aren't men upgrading, but women who're tired of their guys. So chances are about 6 or 7 out of 10 that you're the one who'll end up dumping him, if you put a ring on it.1
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