Okay, I always end up in the friend zone with girls. I just dated this girl and she told me she "would rather be friends". Im overweight (6'1 240lbs) I feel like I'm okay looking. I joke around a lot in my life so I was thinking maybe I'm being too funny and I seem like a buddy. I actually asked the girl that put me in the friend zone this last time and she said I was nice but it wasn't the right time for her. I always here similar things from women, "you're funny, you're nice, you're cute" all the things you don't want to hear if you want to date so what do you think it is and how can I improve?
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Probably because you're not apropriately inaprorpiate. You can be funny and great to be arround, but you lack that extra touch to stand out from the crowd. That subtle flirting, i'd say. You need to be more than funny, nice, and cute. You also need to show a certain subtle sexual interrest. Because deep down at their very instincts, that's the goal of a relationship. And you need to touch that instinct.
Also, you might want to get your body in order. It's not something women are willing to admit, but they are biologically hardcoded to pick the best mates (overweight isn't good). So you might want to take that into account. (with that said, men are also deep down carnal beings. we are animals, after all)0