The past month or so my bf and I have been fighting. I moved in with him shortly after we started dating. Which is why I think we fight quite a bit. It feels like we are married. We have been dating for a little over a year. I have trust issues due to past relationships. Which I know I shouldn't drag that into ours. But sometimes it makes me wonder if I should trust him. He can be a jerk but he gets that from his father. It just runs in the family. And lately he doesn't show that he loves me thay much. He use to ask to cuddle if I wasn't already but now I have to. For about a month he didn't want to have sex. Because he was to tired from work he said. We have been doing it a little more now. I have asked if he has ever cheated on me and he said no and thay he would never. Then last night we were arguing and he said he's not happy with me because we fight all the time. Then I asked him why he's with me and he said because he holes someday I will grow up. Which means start trusting him. But I still don't know why he would be with me if he's not happy? Also would this be a reason he would cheat on me?
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When you invest so much of your time on something, its real hard to let go even though you may not be satisfied with it. He hopes you change because he still loves you. He just doesn’t like the fights involved.
I know this is kinda personal but what kinda stuff you guys fight about? I mean if its like simple shit, washing dishes, laundry, forgetting to do certain chores around the house, then its not worth it.
If it’s like sketchy stuff like he’s out all night and doesn’t tell you where he is kind garbage, then that’s a good enough reason to doubt and question his motives. In a relationship you must be responsible to commit and completely open your life to your partner. There must be no lies or eventually one of you will deteriorate and move on.
You must compromise for each other or you’ll never make it through the first year of marriage. Do things for each other for the love that’s in each other’s hearts. Not because you have to, but because you want to, to make him or her happy.0