Okay, so I have trouble talking and starting conversations with girls. I am a gym rat, but very quiet and shy one that keeps to himself. I never had the courage to go up and talk to girls randomly. Anyway, there is this one girl at my gym, I see her there almost every day, she's a regular and a very cute girl. I am attracted to her and will glance at her often, not sure if she knows I exist. One day though I was doing side planks for a workout and she came over before she left and sat next to me on the mat to stretch (no other places left) So while I was doing a side plank I was facing her, ended up looking right in eachothers eyes for only one second, it was awkward for me for some reason and we both loooked away. I hate to come off as that creepy guy who just looks at girls and does nothing. :(
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Next time just say Hi to her, then ask her something like "don't you go to my school?"
Often, if a guy talks to girls in situations like that, it's not weird, because there's actually nothing else to do. It's really normal. It seems so much more weird and awkward not saying hi to each other, because you actually have seen each other before. And I'm sure, that she has seen you before. I often never meet new faces at my school. So just take a deep breath and say hi next time, or if you catch eyecontact at your school, just smile. It's a great beginning, and it'll 100% make her more comfortable and you'll appear more open.0