My crush is seeing this girl for a while. They hold hands in public (at the college) and I saw them kissing on the stairs twice. I asked him and he said no they're not official or exclusive. He's only seeing this one girl. How the hell are they not exclusive? If I'm dating multiple people or having a friend with benefits I will make sure at least I won't hold their hand in public! Does it sound like they're exclusive? Or am I just paranoid? Thanks.
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If h says they are not exclusive, they are NOT exclusive. Because this means he is not committed to her, and he is open to sleeping with / pashing other girls. She's not going to have a problem with it, and he sure as helll is not going to have a problem with it. And it really doesn't matter what it looks like in public. They may not be exclusive but they may be close to it. But also, essentially, if he tells you they're not exclusive, I say he's completely fair game for you to seduce.0