How do I ask a girl out for a date after she's said no but has hinted recently that she might be into it?
The last time I asked my friend out, she said no. Not because she doesn't like me. She does. She basically said she wasn't ready, that I wouldn't want to date her. That she didn't want it to ruin the friendship if it didn't work out, and that she just wants to be friends.
Lately though, I've been getting a few signals from her. She's planned things to do with me months in advance. Such as my birthday, and a trip on Christmas to visit our families back in our hometown where we are both from. And when she stayed over after a night of drinking with friends, she slept in my room. While I slept on the floor.
I know most people would say that I shouldn't ask her out again. I'm not going to be asking her out anytime soon as it would be too soon since we had a bit of a fight 2 months ago. And I invited her to a movie for her birthday and she turned it into a group event... so I know its not the right time just yet.
I'm most likely going to let her come to me first. But I'm just curious as how one would go about it. How should I approach? What cues should I look for before I approach?
I basically want her to know that no matter what happens we would still be friends. But that I'd at least like to give it a shot. Because you never know what lol happen ubless you take a leap.
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Dont make any moves, if she wants you as more than a friend she will come to you. She already knows how you stand in feelings about her, the ball is in her court now. But from my experience with guy friends asking me out, usually no the first time meant no. And if for some reason I ever had a change of heart I would be the one to pursue... but that never happened. Once in the friend zone pretty much always there.0