The guy I've hooked up with a few times doesn't reach out to contact me anymore. He responds when I reach out, though. So, do I just stop reaching out entirely? Do I post mysterious snapchat stories? How do I get him to get in touch with me first? Because he used to a lot and it was awesome - he admitted he once had feelings, but now he's SUPER busy with course overloads this school year.
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Not for me. I despise the typical, "Oh, I don't want to appear desperate, so I'm not going to talk to him/her too much." Really, I think ti's a ridiculous social construct. If you like someone, you should talk to them whenever you feel like it. I really think this fear of appearing desperate stops people from really becoming close.
If he's not interested and you keep reaching out to him, it's not going to matter, you might waste some time, though. But, at the same time, if he's not interested and you reach out to him, you might pick up some hints that he's not interested. If he is interested, and you keep reaching out to him, it will work out, and a good conversation could come out of it. Really no real down side to it, imo.
Plus, you said he's really busy. If you reach out to him, maybe do it at a time when you think he'll be free. And, even if you reach out to him when he's busy, he'll probably get back to you later.0