So me and him talked to each other daily for the past year. We were crazy about each other and a typical couple, we fought all the time, flirted, made each other happy, helped each other, made each other laugh, missed each other, took decisions together... except we never explicitly said anything. At one point, we kissed and knew we had to make a decision. The reason we never said anything before was because we liked things the way they were. We kissed just before I had to move to another country and the reason we avoided many things is because he is 4 years younger to me. I wanted to avoid falling for him but I did and a 4 year age gap doesn't feel like a good enough excuse to not be with him. However, at the time we thought lets try to stay away from each other for a whule instead of complicating things. So we knew we had to but even that we avoided because it was too hard. At one point I knew I would only fall in love more and more, so I asked for a break. We are in no contact, we talked a little once inbetween but the next day went back to not talking. I just realise how important he is to me and he wasn't even a jerk. He is actually everything I dreamed of.. and more. Thats why I don't know how to let go.. I sometimes wish he was a jerk... would have been easier. Any insight and advice? Thanks:)
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First of all, a 4 year gap is NOTHING. It's definitely no reason to avoid dating someone.
You're 25-29, meaning he's 21-25... that really is nothing. You guys shouldn't be worrying about that AT ALL.
Now, you said "We kissed just before I had to move to another country" - so you guys no longer live in the same country?2