Had a first date with a guy tonight. He arrived on time and we walked to an small Italian restaurante he heard of. We talked on the way there and at when we arrived he opened the door for me. He chatted while eating and had no awkward silence. When the bill came before I even made a move to pay, he already had it covered which was really sweet. When we left he suggested walking some nature trails nearby and it was gorgeous out. We had some periods of silence but it wasn't awkward. Anyways after the walk he walked me home and it was the awkward I don't know what to do. So we hugged and then he leaned down and kissed me (yes I kissed back), but he could have opted out of the kiss right? I just want to be positively sure he's interested and it was sweet in my opinion.
Oh and good or bad idea ( read below)
-I'm going to wait for him to text or call me
-any good second date ideas
-> is a movie still a bad idea for a second date b/c you dont talk
-any good advice is welcome
-any comments concerns please list as well
Most Helpful Girl
He's definitely interested, absolutely.
He's taking you out, kissing you... he's making it very obvious that he likes you.
Honestly, I've never concerned myself with who texts who first. If I felt like saying hi, or had something specific to say, I just text them. It's not a big deal, and you shouldn't have to wait to talk to someone you want to talk to, make him feel wanted to and text first sometimes.
In my opinion, a movie date is only a bad idea if that's all you guys do - see the movie and go home. Seeing a movie AND getting coffee and dessert, or grabbing dinner first and then seeing the movie... I think those things are fine. I love movies and I love to talk about movies. I liked dates where we went to see a movie, and then went for coffee or drinks afterwards and talked (talked about the movie too).1