lets say you had a crush on somebody and whenever you two are together you have a blast and are always smiling and laughing so you assume things are going great, but then you find out that all this time they actually did it out of pitty because they really thought you were just a loser. Would that drastically change your feelings towards that person?
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Yes it would change, I would instantly become indifferent to them, they would mean nothing to me anymore. I'm proud of who I am and have no shortage of great friends and no problems meeting new people so this isn't a realistic problem for me. I can put myself in those shoes though and tell you that I am WAY to stubborn and proud to be thrown a pity party, keep tht shit away from me. I'd walk by them with my head held high and a smile on my face and move on with my life.1