I'm in my first relationship ever. I've been with him for five months, and I'm so attached. I get upset whenever I think of him dumping me. He said he wants to be with me for a long time but I see so many girls around me getting their hearts broken and it terrifies me. I try to be the best girlfriend possible but I'm afraid he's going to find someone better than me that he can see more than once a week. Can a high school relationship last? What are reasons guys end them?
Most Helpful Girl
Ok, first. Stop freaking out. Guys don't like insecure women, or girls growing up into women. Now, understand that you have choices, he's not the only guy out there. But since he's the guy in your sights right now know that you are in control of your own relationship. You're not a puppy dog, you're a young woman, recognize you're worth. Learn who you are and stop worrying about all the other girls. Matter of fact. You can share this piece of advice with them too. Guys are attracted to women who are secure and have something going for themselves. Women who don't assimilate to them but can stand on their own two feet. Who have their own hobbies and activities etc. You should desire the same in your guy. If you are walking around worrying about him leaving you, you have too much time on your hands. Get a hobby and let your relationship grow. You start making decisions concerning your relationship and stop worrying about whether he is going to end it. Let him worry about you ending it.1