My crush called me "my girl". We're not officially bf/gf. We haven't seen each other for a week cuz I was busy and he text me saying "I miss you a lot. It gets me really sad when I'm missing my girl". I always thought "my girl" refers to his girlfriend?
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By calling you 'his girl', that means he probably likes you a lot and is open to making it official between you two. Unless you guys have directly discussed it, I wouldn't think it means he's referring to you as his 'girlfriend' just yet.
I hate being in that gray, undefined area with someone that you care for. Just tell him one day that you had a really fun time hanging out with him, and ask how he'd feel about starting a relationship. Don't be worried about 'scaring him away' by bringing up that topic. If it does for some reason scare him off, you're better off without him anyhow as it would indicate that you guys were looking for different things from each other anyhow.1
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