I was chatting to this girl online, we got on really well and then exchanged numbers. Basically she was incredibly into me saying that I was like the perfect guy. We agreed to meet after I persuaded her. Then the day of the meet as I set off she said that she was really hungover and throwing up from the night before and looking disgusting. I said I didn't mind and that id drive to meet her anyway. It was a long drive 1 hr. I text her when i was there and said just come out for 15 mins to say hi. She just didn't get back to me and left me out cold. Im so angry, guys dont do this!! Its really bad to drive to her hometown and her not to just come and say hello and say she was still hungover. And hangovers are no excuse anyway. How can this happen when a girl is so into you from all her texts ?
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This is interesting.. And I'm very sorry you feel this way. So first, coming from a girl's perspective, I've met a guy online before and he wanted to meet up. A little similar to your story, I ended up with the stomach flu and told him I really couldn't meet up because when I get the stomach flu my symptoms are awful. I guess I could have seen him for 15 minutes, but I was very embarrassed because I had large, dark bags under my eyes, and because I would have been mortified if I had to run in the house.. So she may have been embarrassed for you to see her looks when she has a hangover. However, I made plans to meet up with the guy on a different day when I was no longer sick, which she could have done. Also, if she told you not to come, I would have not drove an hour to see her. It'd be one thing if she really wanted you to visit with her and then she doesn't come out of her house. That'd be really fucked up. But from your message above, it doesn't look like she wanted you to come. So personally, I can't say it's her fault that you drove an hour. Overall, I can see how she may be embarrassed for you to see her. But if she's really interested then she'd think of another day for you two to meet. And, next time, don't drive an hour for a girl who doesn't want you coming over. It will save you some hurt and some gas, haha. I'd work with her and try and pick a date to meet up again, if she doesn't want to, I'd forget about it. Best of luck. :)0