We'd been together for 2 years and broke up (for the third or fourth time...) about 2 months ago. I asked if he wanted to have "no strings attached sex" and we've been doing that ever since. Nothing has changed between us, and we act just like we did when we were dating except without the title.
We visit each other often and talk every day (we're long distance at school.) And, we're okay with each other meeting new people... but if we're interested in someone we have to calmly break it off with each other. I've been going out, not actively looking but people have talked to me, but he hasn't been doing anything like that. Now he's saying he wants more security from me and this thing we've got going on.
Should we get back together? We most certainly have our issues that need to be worked through, but he feels like home to me. The thought of him with another girl is awful. We were once in love, and I know how good of a person he really can be.
Is it a good idea to get back together? Or should I just let him/the false relationship go?
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You should reach a decision of what you want, and then tell him to shit or get off the pot.1