Guy I have been casually seeing and doing (known him for 9years) tells me one drunken night that he wants me to be his official friend with benefits? I'm out of the dating region with this guy ain't I?
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Well, what do you expect after nine years of "casually seeing and doing him"?
I don't think you're TOTALLY out of dating region, he obviously wants to maintain some sort of relationship with you, even if it is a friends with benefits type of deal. Just tell him that you're hoping for more than that. What's the worst that could happen? He stops talking to you after nine years of friendship?
Go for it, girl!1