I've been talking to a guy for about a month and I guess u could say we're dating but we haven't labeled the situation.
The other day we were watching a movie and we were cuddling and he said to me "I feel like the girl" just because I wasn't the one all over him
Then just yesterday he tells me "I'm not worried I know you don't even care" (we were talking about hanging out this week but I said I need to find out my schedule and that I would let him know)
I have never been the type of person that shows a lot of emotions/affection it just feels uncomfortable and ungenuine it's not like I don't care about him or something but I'm not one to pour my heart out to people (I don't even tell my parents I love them) but In my mind he should know that he is kinda important because I obviously make time for him and i talk to him all the time no matter what time it is and I just feel like I shouldn't have to be all mushy (stereotypical love)
Besides don't guys always complain about girls being too emotional and clinging
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People show love and like to receive love in many different ways. You sound like a 'doer'. You like to show you care with your actions (making time for him, being available to talk, etc.) Since that is how you give love, you are probably most comfortable receiving love this way as well. This is more of a masculine trait than a feminine one. He, on the other hand, sounds as if he prefers to show and receive love through affection. The two of you need to find some sort of middle ground with your give and receive of love and affection. It may not be what you like, but if it's what he needs, you may have to work on showing more affection. If it continues to be an issue that you can't resolve, it will keep you from getting as close as you should be to be a healthy happy successful couple. If that's the case it may be time to search for someone who is more similar to yourself in his style of loving.0