I'm 23 years old, just finished college and moved back in with my parents. I start my new job at the end of month with crazy good benefits, lucrative pay and profit sharing. On top of that, I will be working a weekend job as well... so I will be working 7 days a week for the next year!
My goal is live with my parents for that year, get all loans paid, save a bit, buy a new car (which I will customize down the road), save up a bit and then move out. This will take me roughly a year and a half.
Anyway, I keep losing women that I am interested in. This one girl was really infatuated with me... but after I told her I live with my parents and how I would need to be home at certain times so they don't worried. She seemed cool with it. I also told her my plan as well (as stated above). She eventually started drifting away from me and found a new guy. She barely talks to me anymore.
I asked her what she likes in a guy. She said she likes a guy who has his own place. A guy who has a good job. A guy with a car and a few other things.
I feel like being in the early 20s is the worst time for a guy. I can move out, be like everyone else and live a mediocre lifestyle for the next few years. But...
With my idea, I can get a nice car (which I will customize later) and a nice place down the road... nicer than what people have right now. And that also eliminates the roommate factor because I would have enough to live by myself.
Why don't women just admit they want a guy to have it all now, instead of a guy who lives with his parents and plots things out to live better than the other guys?
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well i think its the fact you dont have a job currently... forget the end of the month thing... you dont have a car a job or your own place... people are judgemental... so thats what it is... im 22 and i wish i could have a brand new car own place but yet still have time to enjoy all this stuff... in this life its either... dont work or work and make little money but have free time to enjoy stuff... or work hard and have all that stuff but no time to enjoy it... stop worrying about chicks right now honestly... get your job first and then your car... then the place is last... i mean a lot of girls want guys with their own place because they dont have their own place... my bro can't get a girl because he says they all want guys with their own place.. we only want this because i want to be able to go to your house and be with you instead of being out all the time... i live with my mom and for me im focused on getting my new car and getting rid of the old one... dont plan on moving out till i get my new car..0