I was told by my gf that males look for every flaw in a women before they commit. Why is that?
Since were all human yes we all will have flaws that a no brainer but how does that effect the changes? Or what is it that males are thinking that. It hard to get it
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Let me start off by saying I adore women, I'm very fortunate to have some cool gals in my life. But the truth is, there are some bad apples out there too, and "gender issues" are not something only women face.
Because if a guy get's involved with the wrong woman, it can destroy his life, financially and otherwise.
US Census Bureau statistic: 97% of all alimony is paid by men to women; women also receive child support the majority of the time.
A woman in a divorce setting can get even more than just alimony and child support, but a large percentage or total ownership of some assets as well, including his business, which can be forced to close shop, putting him and his employees out of work. I know a lot of men, some of them friends, who are now homeless due to divorce--and while homeless, still have to pay the woman alimony and/or child support while she is living in his former residence.
And a woman, whether married to a man or not, can paint a guy black and cause him to see jail time--real domestic crimes by men against women go under reported, but false allegations by definition are reported, and even being accused of something like rape, innocent or not, can cause a man to be fired from work or have other fallout. (this is why there is so much backlash against these type of issues--the "girls who cried wolf" have a lot of guys needlessly skittish)
Also, men are also physically/emotionally abused by women (actually at a higher rate than women, interestingly), but this rarely goes reported because people tend not to care if a man is abused, and when it is reported, it's often assumed the man did something to the woman to instigate, so he can be arrested instead--this actually happens.
So if a lot of men seem suspicious of women, it's because being with the wrong women can be very, very perilous. Fortunately, being with the right woman keeps men dating--a great relationship is worth the risk, which is why men still play the dating game.2