Ok, my girlfriend's best fried came to the city and started to study with her in the same college...
The worst thing is that she started to hang out with her best "girl" friend and stopped going out with me for a while now. Before we have been going out together almost everyday but now we almost never talk. The last time we were out it was the day before her best friend arrived, we were at the mall with her mother and her mothers friend. Before she was always replying to my SMS's almost instantly but now she started to delay and at some point she just ignore the texts... It's driving me crazy. Is she doing that because her friend is around or what? I really don't understand... I just don't know what to do now...
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if this has been going on awhile here is a possibility for her behaviour.
When her friend wasn't there you were her focus off attention and probably more and enjoyment and cause for happieness, but now her best friends back and her focus has shifted from being just on you to being on both you and her best friend.
as a result she may not depend on you as much and she may be feeling like you're smothering her with text msg's (the times where she starts to ignore them) my advice if this describes the problem, just relax, maybe try organise to go out on the weekend or something if she declines then talk to her about how you are feeling, neglected and lonley I'm sure she'll understand.
At the same time listen to what she has to say and understand where she's comming from.
Try work out and understanding by talking about the problem
if she's unwilling to meet ya halfway in the relationship and you feel you are the only one trying then she's not worth it and it's never worth being in a relationship where you find yourself feeling emotionally abused.
Best of luck
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